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writes:I need help! I cant stop thinking about my sister in law. She is constantly on my mind morning noon and night. I don't understand I am very happily married and love my wife to bits, however all I can think about is what I would do to my 'S.I.L' if we were alone together. I think she fancies me a bit too, not sure really but just the way she flirts when we are around each other. I am very confused about the whole thing and don't know where it is going. I sometimes talk in my sleep and I am afraid that I will say her name or something else for my wife to her.Any advice welcome.........
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): I did it, couldn't control my self, after 22 years of marriage I did my sil. She is 8 years younger than me, a fox, and very very girly, feminine, slender and athletic, just the way I like girls. My wife isn't, and my sil shaves, wife won't and swallows, wife won't, will masturbate for me, wife won't. Our sex was great, hot and and sweaty and nasty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): I love my sister-in-law, and whe too love me more. I love my wife too, but i can't be leave without my her (Sister-in-law). now i feeling sorry when i am calling her to sister-in-law. Now i am very confused what should i do? almost people reply me that i am not loving my sil, but its not truth. I love her too much. My one son also love her too much and my sil is too love my elder son. She always try to stop me to loving her, but i cant stop my self to love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Sex appeal and attraction is a part of life so there is no as such control on it go for it and also inform your wife and apologize her but this can also be opposite with you wife so keep this in mind but none of the human being can control themselves as SEX is a part of our lives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Me too i fantay my SIL every moment i would think about her. how it started i lived work out of state and staying with sis in laws house we commute to work together and having lunch togethr suddenly i felt closeness to her i gave her hug whenever i can possibly do, when she was sick gave her massage and stayed home to confort her at time when she was sick. she a vey beautiful woman good pesonality. i know sometimes when she laughs she looks at me turns her head other way or we will engage in eye contact when were together. often i ask her every time to join me like going places dinner with co worker, grocery stores, malls to she will come with me. there is this feeling i have towards her and i know she likes me because how she gesture, looking at me. there was one time i picked her from work we sat in the car for a while because she wasn't feeling better and she open up to me what she was going through and crying wipe her tears with my hands kind a touching her face move her hair away from her face telling her i'll be ther for her if she needs me. ever now and then i always think and fantasy her. someimes we talk on the phone i would say love u, i love you she'll respond with i live you too. we her hugging me it feels different. so how do i tell her aboput all this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): It would be best not to do anything about it. You'd be ruining your marriage and breaking up two sisters' relationship! Is she your wife's sister? If she is, she shouldn't be flirting with you and she could be getting off in a sibling rivalry sort of way. Would a good person flirt with her sister's husband? And even if you did do anything, this "forbidden fruit" would wear out soon and not taste as good, and you'd be left with a broken family and ask yourself why you on earth you did that. Try and imagine the repercussions every time you feel the urge to obsess. Or get a hobby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): I know exactly what you are going through. I too am a married man and can not help but want my wife's sister as well. She is the only woman (other than my wife) that I fantasy about and want to be with. After years I recently told my SIL my true feelings about her. She was very receptive and continues to filrt with me but will not allow us to ever cross that line - though i hope we will one day. Follow your heart - you are going through a stage where another woman attracts you - you wonder how similiar and yet different she could be from your wife. You are close to her and feel comfy enough to want her and love her. Try it -it will be amazing.
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reader, Dancertainier  +, writes (5 February 2008):
Its quite simple really when you think about it, you say you love your wife so why rock the boat? why ruin something precious for what at the end of the day..??
Im sure your sister in law is all too aware that her flirting with you is getting your attention and to be quite frank she shouldnt be setting out to hurt her sister this way.
You need to spend less time away from your sister in law, and spend more time with your wife, find things that just the 2 of you can enjoy doing, remember why you fell in love with your wife.
I hope this works out for you, good luck
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