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writes:Ok,so I am a 14 year old boy ... and last year, I met this girl, who I find very, very attractive, a year ago, and i like her very very much ... So i am friend with her best friend and she tells me many things, and this girl who I like doesn't want to talk to me, doesn't want to talk about me, doesn't want to look at me except when I am not looking at her (like in a crowd in our school) and I noticed that she just looks at me for a few seconds and than she turns away... the "friend" says that "the girl" doesn't like me but I think otherwise ... what do you think ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2011): Oh my goodness, i was in almost the exact same situation last year! Except I was the girl that the guy liked, and i didn't like him back. He told my best friend he liked me too. We are still in this situation. He's on her bus and idk maybe they do talk. I see him staring at me in the hallway too. And occaisionally if i see him i look over and then look down cuz honestly its just too weird! I don't like him. I don't like talking about him or to him. If you were from the US, i would've thought it was the guy! Listen, the only way you can find out is by telling her you like her, and waiting for a reply. But don't set yourself up for dissapointment. It could go either way.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 I think it's worth a try . Better trusting your gut feelings than a hearsay from someone who could be misinformed or jealous.
Go say " hi". Go say " wow, cool shoes " or hairdo or what not- and take it from there.
Of course, there is always a chance she may actually not be into you. Try not to take it personally, you can't play it safe all your life, at some point you are bound to meet rejection. It's not the end of the world,if this fish does not bite , there s plenty of other fish in the sea- at least you 'll have tried.
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reader, Red591  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 sweetie you are 14 and there are tons of pretty girls. why follow the one that says she doesn't like you. forget her. go for her friends!!!
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