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writes:Look it's a really, really long story filled with pain and suffering - something I feel I created - but 2 weeks today I know I'm going to be going through a world of pain I know I can't handle.You can call me weak about it, but I'm insanely infatuated with someone and she's moving out of town. The thing is, although I have her phone number, it's not really that simple. I'm young and I have over protective parents so meeting up would be impossible. Also, she doesn't know how much I love her, and she probably wouldn't even call me a friend.The thing is, I really need to get through this but I just don't know how. I've been having no sleep and crying myself to sleep - yeah sissy but I can't bare her not to be in my life anymore.Any help on how to get through this would be appreciated Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 June 2008):
You may have over protective parents but I am sure they want grandkids one day and that involves you dating girls.
You are 18. You are old enough to go to war, so you are old enough to go up to this girl and ask her if she wants to go out for dinner before she leaves.
Be a man and do it or you'll sit regretting it after she's gone.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, bday121  +, writes (21 June 2008):
 You're not weak. You have emotions and you embrace them. There's nothing "weak" about that. You're strong for accepting them.
Anyway, I say you just call this girl and talk to her for a bit. Try to open up some communication. If you love her this much, it's worth at least trying to make her your friend, isn't it? If she leaves and you never had a chance to tell her how you feel, you might regret it.
Exactly how far away is this girl moving? Would it be impossible to carry out a long-distance relationship? Is it possible that she could move back on her own? There's always the chance that she's interested in you, so tell her your feelings! You two could start a long-distance relationship, then you could even live together if you're both over 18. It's not the end of the world!
But if it turns out that she's not interested, or that a relationship is impossible right now...well, you'll have to deal with some emotional pain. Just ride it out and it'll pass with time. Try to stay optimistic. You're young and you'll find another girl, probably one that you like even more!
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