A
female
age
30-35,
*heFallBackGurl
writes: Me and this girl have been dating. My mom knows im gay but her parents dont know about her; neither of our parents know about us. Im going to be going to college here soon and i dont know what to do. I want us to be serious and she does too but its hard with neither of our parents knowing. My parents would be okay with it, as they love her and treat her like a second daughter even though they think we are just friends. Her parents, im not so sure about. Shes scared to tell them and i would be to. I was when i told my mom. I dont want to push her but i also want to know if i should consider us as a thing in the future, and whether i should remain close when i go off to college or can consider options farther away. I dont want to push her into telling them but i also dont know what to do without making it seem like i am. Whenever i bring it up she acts like im telling her if she doesnt tell them i will. Shes two grades below me but only 9 months younger then me; im just in a higher grade because i skipped a few grades. Maybe this is just high school love. I dont know but whatever it is i want to hold on to it. Got any advice? Reply to this Question Share |
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