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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Ive got gorgeous twin girls, nearly one. I met their dad on a dating site and he never took me home and kept 'falling out' with me over no good reason, it was very weird. Anyhow, he told me in some intention to 'keep me' I think, that he wanted a baby, which I also wanted, and so here are the twins. When I got pregnant he left me saying he was too scared, and now they are nearly one he says he loves them, and he has them weekly, BUT Im terrified of him doing something weird to them. He talked a lot of having mental health problems when I knew him, and he lives with a terribly sad and miserable looking woman (I dont know their relationship other than they both own the house they both live in) Im just scared that he will do something weird to them even though I know he has no criminal record. Obviously he has lived with this woman ages whilst seeing me unobtrusively at the same time, by saying he's working away etc, and I know she knows about the twins, but he is now advertising on dating sites for sex partners. It just makes me shudder to think that he is not quite all there.Anyone any ideas........... please!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): The only way you can protect your twins is if the father doesn't show much interest in seeing them. But if he does show an interest in seeing them and you are against that and withhold contact, he can take you to court. I've been through the mill with this. I tried very hard to fight to protect my child, and the bottom line is, the British courts will absolutlely promote contact. You can request contact in a supervised centre. The problem you face is you have no proof that the father is a possible danger to your twins. And he has no criminal record. What you can do is ask for contact at a contact centre based on a 'lack of bond' between the twins and their dad, that is if they don't know him well. Hope this helps.
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