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writes: hi im jusy wondering ?if anyone can help me out here?my husband left me for a girl 20 years younger than him.and said he does not love me anymore.that he s in love with her and feels ever so happy in this realationship.it tuck me 6months to get over this.it still hurts a bit but only sometimes its not so bad now thank god.we were married 20 years.but my question is if hes so happy and in love with his new life why does he text me to ask about our kids and tell me hes been crying?and why has he got knife marks going all the way up his arms?he does not sound happy to me what do you think?my friends say hes regretting the choice he made and thay cant see him staying with her.i dont know about that i do wonder but i know i will never take him back.do you think it could end with her and that hes not happy after all?i do worry that he could do some harm to himself how should i handle this or should i do or say anything at all? plese help .he is still the farther of my kids i dont want anything bad to happen to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): He is not your responsibility now. He is a grown adult. Ask him to text only about the kids and stop this texting about crying! You are not his mother! Just make sure that when he has the kids he isn't alone. You do not want anything to happen to him if he is self harming then his brain is unstable. arrange for them to be at a relatives if you can or someone who can unbiastly look after them all, even the kids.
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reader, burningbridges  +, writes (5 January 2007):
This man may or may not be happy, but he's self harming and making stupid choices like leaving his family you're better off without him and he seems very much he'd be quite happy to become your burden.
You can not make other people happy. About the only thing you can do in monitor this guy when he's with your kids in case he does something rash or call suicide watch if you think he's a risk for that.
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