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anonymous
writes:Okay, let me start from the beginning. When I first met my husband he had an ex fiance that was just obsessed with him and he was totally through with her, but she wouldn't stop trying to get in touch. Finally after about a year and a half of her harrassing us I decided to speak with her. She said she was just in need of closure because he (my husband) just kinda left her with no explanation....I was like I'm sorry, but he doesn't owe you anything and we are getting married so please just move on.Then here we are today. It has been almost ten years. She has got married and has kids, but STILL wants contact. So finally me and and my husband thought about this......we have a secluded beach house and a free weekend, so I suggested inviting her to come down with her family and enjoy the weekend. Thought this might help her see that we are happy together and give her closure. Little did we know she would come alone.Long story short.....we are both very attractive bisexual women who were actually attracted to each other. That night at the beach we all got naked. I had oral sex with my husband and then she masterbated while watching him having sex with me. It was such a big turn on!!!!My question is this....I'm thinking about doing this again, except this time she wants to make out with me while my husband has sex with me.....could I be lighting the fuse that finally sets this girl off???? I mean we both know she has problems as far as not letting go(Fatal Attraction) style, but the thought of saying watch me having sex with who you want is such a high for me it's hard to say no....... her doing me is a plus too
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): Thanks for the answers guys!!! I know he'll never want to be back with her...I mean she has had many chances even before I came into the picture, so I'm not worried about that part, just that she might turnn "psycho" especially since her previous actions.
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reader, wildman +, writes (4 March 2008):
 Sounds like fun to me and if it is exciting for you I would go for it.
Your husband should love it.
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (29 February 2008):
Although it sounds like a lot of fun you are all having there I can't help but be a little suspicious of her long term motive. You need to talk this out very thouroughly with your husband and make sure it is always you two and her, never you two and your husband or her them two and you so to say.
Providing everything is managable and under control and you all like what you are doing then carry on having fun. Sounds like a potential for a good set up - just beware of any long term ulterior motives from her side.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 well i think that if you and your husband are into this kind of sexual activity, thats fine, but its a dangerous game to be playing when there's an ex involved - especially one who is still not over your husband. i suggest that you try and cut ties with this woman, from what i can gather, she has been given many chances to 'get closure' and at this point it's a little worrying. if you want to continue this behaviour with a woman, try meeting someone new that neither of you have had a relationship with - i.e no feelings involved. if you were to keep the ex involved in your sex, she may get the wrong idea and try to come between you and your husband. i hope this helps, good luck
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