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The effects of adultery - what do you think they are? How to cope with it?

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Article - (20 April 2010) 2 Comments - (Newest, 19 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, kirstyanne1987 writes:

Hi i hope this dosn't waste too much of you time. Im a journalism student and im doing a story on relationships and the effects of adultery. Its in the news alot more recently due to relationships in the media becoming peoples gossip. I was just wanting a few sentences or quotes from you that i could use in my blog. Anything about how you help people move on from relationships like that or how to cope for peoples who it is is the media spotlight. What your advice would be to them and also what you personally would do if thats ok?

Thankyou very much if you could email me [Moderator note: email addresses cannot be published here due to privacy concerns. ]

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A female reader, SUNSHINE352 United States +, writes (19 May 2010):

i think any relationship marriage or not adultery hurts and people dont realize they are human beings just like us,they just have alot more money than the average person but pain is pain.we dont have to look at it in a magazine everyday in stores but we still go through the hurt and pain.men and women need to think with teir minds and heart before they think with there penis and vagina.you thought money is the root of all evil well so is the sexual parts.i rather for a man to just call it quits before he gets that far.

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A male reader, $izZle India +, writes (20 April 2010):

$izZle agony auntHello Kirstyanne, that is a very sensitive subject that you are working with. Any relationship or marriage is like magic that is created between two individuals that may or may not share common interest. Like in food, its a dish because it has salt and pepper, relationship and marriage are built around love and trust. When there is a question about adultery that arises in any relationship or marriage, that would mean the action is a response to loss of any one or both of those emotions. Love is one of the strongest form of emotion that is expressed between partners and it is that bond that holds people together. When you love some one you start building a trust in them in that relationship once that has been lost even though you get back with your partner you will never have the same trust. Yes, it is true that you can earn the partners trust but its going to be really hard. Marriage and relationships should be about love, and not about being in a relationship or marriage just because you are already in it .... I find it more comforting to be in the arms of some one I love rather than indulging myself into acts of adultery...

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