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writes:So I went on a date with this guy .. It was a set up from one of my clients . We all went out to dinner he was cute and very nice after dinner we stayed and had a drink and just talked . It was fun . He texted me we talked for a few days then we hung out again just me and him it was a Tuesday night we had fun found out we actually had a lot in common .. Problem is I can't read him at all I can't tell if he's interested at all .. I haven't heard from him since but it's only been two days .. (side note ) I found out he was on a dating website I looked up his profile ( swear Im not a stalker!! Even though it clearly sounds like it when I write it out ) it says what kinda girl he's looking for and I don't fit that profile at all I'm tall and blonde not fat but curvey he likes short,skinny and dark hair .. Anyway is it safe to say he not interested or should I go out on a whine and text him and see what happens ? I don't wanna seem desperate
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo he called me and we went out on a third date .. It was fun but I've realize that he's just not for me .. No sence of humor or it maybe he doesnt understand mine lol.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (21 January 2011):
I think you should just relax and have fun and stop googling him. Do not get caught up in that. Just let him pursue you. Go out and have fun. It does not seem like it has been that long so just be patient and whatever you do...do not let him know you saw his dating website. He will go running. If three days go by then call him.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 Just because that's the type of girl he was looking for doesn't mean he won't be interested in you. Sometimes you can think you know what you want and then you meet someone who's nothing like it and get on great with them anyway.
He must like you or he wouldn't have gone on a second date. Like you said, it's only been 2 days so wait and see if he gets in touch. If not then sending him a friendly text just to ask how he is isn't going to make you look desperate. If he then takes that opportunity to talk and ask you out again then great! If not you'll know where you stand. You've got nothing to lose :)
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