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writes:Help, I'm going crazy!There is this boy. I like him, I really really like him, he makes me feel like no other person has ever the feeling is indescribable, I think it's love.I went out with him once, but we split up because he fancied another girl. My feelings only grow stronger for him though. When we were at school he said he loves me, but I haven't seen him for the whole of the 6 weeks holiday. I speak to him on chatrooms but his pitures are other girls and when I ask who they are he tells me that they are other girls he meet and now loves as well as me, and he says he wants to take one of them to the prom!It is driving me mad with jealousy. I relly want him, but I'm scared that if I go back out with him, will he cheat on me again. Last time I cried but if it happens again I don't know what I will do.Any advice will be gratefully acepted. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2005): I think this boy is playing a mindgame with you and the best thing you can do is..ignore him and try real hard to move forward and get over him. You can't make him like you best. Alternatively you could attach yourself to someone who does appreciate you but please don't date someone else just to make this boy jealous. That would be cruel to do to someone who really likes you a lot.
I wouldn't be in too much of a hurry to find the right person because normally, the second you stop looking for something, it falls into your lap. Just be yourself, have some confidence, and you will find the perfect guy. But best of all, don't play this game with this boy..and try real hard to show him you are a classy girl and you don't need him to make you feel good about yourself. You are likely a lovely person inside and out..and if he's doing this to you-he showing you what a fool he really is. Carry on and try your best to forget him. You are better than this...let him flirt with all the girls he's wants but be smart and don't fall for his 'games" good luck
Hugs,
Irish
Just be yourself, have some confidence, and you will find the perfect guy, someday who will care for you in a respectful, honest way.
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reader, Delila +, writes (5 September 2005):
You fancy this guy so much he's all you can think about, he is hurting you but you still want him. I know how strong that feeling is with you, I can feel it as I read your words. What is comming across as well is a girl who does not love herself enough. Tell yourself before you go to sleep tonight that you are going to do one special thing for yourself every day from now on. Just something small, like look in the mirror and tell your reflection how much you like it. Say "I Like You". Make yourself a nice card telling yourself how brilliant you are. Buy or pick a bunch of flowers for your room. Then sit down one evening and write a list of all the qualities you would like your dream man to have, for example, Good person, loves you lots, faithful, nice looking, strong, good sense of humour etc, put the list under your pillow and sleep on it. I not saying try to stop thinking about this guy but I am saying to start thinking about yourself more.
Delila
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reader, jaime +, writes (5 September 2005):
it sound to me like hes trying to wind you up, i understand your feelings for him, but if this boy says he loves you and he loves other girls, he doesnt know what love is, he may well have feeling for you but maybe hes worried you dont like him, or maybe he just thinks your pretty but doesnt want a girlfried at the moment, but it sounds like hes winding you up, dont let him bother you too much, let him think your not to interested in him, maybe hes just shy, you will soon find out his true feelings for you, if not get over him!
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