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* think im in love :(
writes:I think i love sum boy but not sure if he feels the same. his in afghan and bfore he went he sed to me i do like yuu but i want to wait till i get bk and since then i have slept with over boys i dunno wat to do? Help me !!!xXx Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 September 2008):
Write him a bluey or send him an email and be honest. It is far worse for him to get his hopes up for 6 months and then come home to find you have been playing around and got a new boyfriend.
Write and tell him that since you are not officially together that you have been seeing other people. But that you have been thinking about him blah blah blah.
As long as you tell him the truth then it will be ok.
The reason lads break up with their girls before they go is because it's easier to do that than to find out they have been cheated on.
If he is in the army then he is going to be away A LOT and since you obviously cannot stay faithful (although I know you weren't really trying) I think it might be very hard for you to go out with this guy. Tell him you just want to be friends but keep writing to him and sending parcels of sweets etc. He needs moral boosts even if they are only from a mate and not his girlfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): Up to you, hon. Do you love the boy in the service in Afghanistan? If you do, don't you think you should let him know? I think he was very honest with you. He did not expect you to "be faithful" to him while he was gone, since you did not have an "agreement". But, if you have feelings for him, he deserves to know. And if you do, don't you think you might cut back on the "sex" with other guys? He will probably find out when he comes home. So, you want him to be embarrassed by those who tell him what you were doing? Think about how you feel. If you really feel for this guy, you owe him something, don't you think?
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