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writes: I've felt strangely about my breasts ever since I got them. I was 11 when they were noticeable, and I felt feminine. Even though boys didn't make comments to me (I was super shy, so they didn't mess with me), all my friends said I had such a nice figure, and that they were so big! Of course, they looked big on an 11 year old, who had flat chested friends. I wasn't ashamed of them as I had seen my mother's ever since I can remember. To me they weren't much of a taboo.Except when I was more into my teenage years, I started to realize that mine were really average, maybe smallish. Medium sized, as I wear a B cup. But there were shorter, thinner girls who were bustier and of course got more attention. I also realized hoy my male friends like the most endowed celebrities. I felt a bit inadequate, but then I realized that girls with big breasts were alwasy trying to conceal them. Some of them were very proud and wore cleavage, but most didn't. I didn't get it, as I wanted bigger breasts because I am tall and wide hipped.Nowadays, that I'm in college and not highschool, I've started to realize that my breasts are great, no matter what. They could be a bit bigger to suit my frame better, but they still look proportionate. My boyfriend loves them. He's been with larger breasted girls, and smaller chested ones. He doesn't seem to care much about size. An ex of mine also told me (back then, not now) that they were great. I've now come to realize that this insecurity's always been in my head, nowhere else!Truth is, the size dilemma is a myth. Sure, some men are fixated with one size or another, and sometimes they choose a partner that doesn't fit the bill, and make her feel bad. But most men truly don't care much.I've seen so much debate about what size's better. Small has it's pros, but so does big! It's often sad, because both sizes feel inadequate. If big is cheered, small feels insecure. If small is praised, big feels unsexy. But truth is, size is irrelevant to sexiness. Any man can tell you that. Breasts of all sizes are to be admired by their own qualities, because they're all beautiful.The most important thing to remember is that we're all together in this. We have to appreciate each other and ourselves for our differences, and cherish them. We all know about the joys and pains of having breasts, regardless of size. But there's one thing that we all have in common: we can nurture another being with them! And that is the most beautiful aspect. So girls out there, big or small: WE'RE BEAUTIFUL! We all have our own unique beauty to our breasts. All breasts are beautiful and sexy, you just have to find your own best feats. So enjoy it and hopefully start feeling better about yourselves. We all deserve to feel beautiful and sexy, no matter what!Cheers for the boobies!
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Wow, this was greatly written and it was to the point. I'll use this for future reference when a girl questions her boob size. This article touched me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): My husband always tells "more thatn a mouthfull is a waist".
So your right We just have to be happy with what we have. You know I have met people with boobs bigger than a C cup and they always gripe about how much there back hurts. I dont want that to be me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): Great article, well done! Another thing for ladies to remember is that they come in different shapes as well as sizes. Friends have complained "mine are small", "mine are pointy", "my nipples are way too big", boobs are just boobs and, like people, everyone's boobs are different! Sure, porn stars and glamour models have perfect, pert boobs with small perfect nipples but most of the time, they aren't even real!! What does that tell you? We are aching for a shape and size that barely even exists. Be happy with yourselves ladies, love your boobs!!!
Hurray for boobs!!
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 I agree completely. I'm an A cup myself, and I felt inadequate most of the way through highschool - but then, so did my friend who is a DD.
We figured out that if you put our entire 'boob mass' together and halved it, we'd both be happy, haha.
But we both realized, like you said, that size doesn't matter in the slightest. Hell, I'd say any guy who is seeing boobs is not going to complain about the size anyway. ;-)
So here's to a great article, and boobs! Hooray for boobs!
They're a privilege to have, regardless of size.
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