A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Since i was younger i dont know if i have been attracted to girls. Iv only ever had boyfriends, but i do fantasies about girls sometimes. When i was 17 i did do sexual things with a girl i met and she became quite forceful like wanted a relationship and thought of relationship with a girl personally for me its just ridiculous because i like men, i have boyfriend and are sex life is amazing and i do love big strong man, i just don't know if im maybe bi sexual, i wouldnt ever want to be in a relationship with a woman but sexually i would and could again have sex with a girl! It does sexually excite me. So i dont think its emotional thing towards them. I dont look at girls in the street or anything and think oo i would go there its not really like that. I would say if i see attractive girl on tele she pretty and boyfriend has questioned me. I told him about what i did and hes not bothered but does make jokes about it. Its very confusing. Any ideas? Maybe im bi i dont know? Even if i was i wouldn't tell a sole! Dont know what to think and iv been thinking about this for a few years now and never bin able to tell anybody!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2014): You sound perfectly normal to me. Have you heard of the "kinsey scale". Kinsey was a sexologist who studied human sexual behaviour in the 1940's and 50's. He surmised that most people were simply not gay or straight or bisexual but there was a "scale of gayness". He also believed that people could move up and down this scale at different stages in their lives.I, myself, am not sure whether I should identify myself as straight or bi-sexual. I guess I don't really identify as bisexual as I don't really envisage myself having a long-term relationship with a woman but who knows - I don't know what my future holds. But then I remember that it doesn't really matter - what matters is how I'm feeling at the time.To be honest I don't spare it much thought and I don't think you should.
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