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writes:Recently I discovered that my gf of 9 months had texted one of my really good friends at a party (she had been drinking) and the day after without telling me. I found a peace of paper that she had written this on (i think it was part of her journal) and i didnt know what it was so i read it. Anyway, She took the number from my phone when she saw him bc she thought he was good looking. the texting and talking between them has stopped, but i was wondering if i should confront her about this. it has been bothering me a lot, I love her and it wouldnt have bothered me if she told me, I want to know why, and I dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2009): better confront her now before investing any more into this relationship. start communicating and talking about yor trust issues. if you don't these issues will fester, get out of hand and then it will be all over. so nip 'whatever' in the bud and see whether you have reason to mistrust and how you both can work things out. BUT do not sweep this under the carpet and hope it will all go away. later on it will come back to bite you in the arse big time, if not dealt with properly now.
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reader, Ricky2727 +, writes (30 November 2009):
Hmm, do you know for a fact that she thought he was good looking? Did she actually say it or are you just assuming? If the texting has stopped then don't freak out just yet. There are explanations for everything even though the situation may seem bad. If you guys really love each other then being open and asking each other to be honest should be easy. Just talk to her if it's really bugging you. It could honestly be nothing.
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