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writes: Hi, I've seen a few posts on here that are similar, but none are giving the answers I'd like. I'm 19 and I've had sex, but only with one guy and only a few times, so obviously I'm not too experienced. We've since broken up, and I'm starting to look for dating prospects again. What I wanted to know is what I can do to make sex more enjoyable for him? I know that if he's comfortable and yada yada, then I shouldn't worry, but I enjoy the sexual side of relationships (whether it be sex, or oral/manual stimulation), and I know my ex could've been a lot happier. Basically, I'm wondering what basics there are for a girl so that I'm not just laying on my back doing nothing? Any help would be appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2005): From my experience there are ton's of ways to make sex better for him. The first one is to watch porn. What I learned watching porn is invaluble, how to move, talk dirty and really give great oral. At first I felt silly, but after seeing my mans reaction to my new behavior I love it and really get into it. I've found it even makes my experience more intense. I also recommend always leaving the lights on, men are very visual and love to watch you and themselves. Hope this helps. Good luck.
A reader, Shonna, writes (3 March 2005): There are many things you could try. Alot of men like to "hit it from the back", so try that.It really turns them on when there is a pretty girl bent over in front of their face,and knowing that they have control. This position will be beneficial to you as well. Have you thought of foreplay? This plays a major part in sex, play around and explore before jumping in bed. Talk dirty to him.Like tell him how you like it or compliment him, it turns them on when they know that you are enjoying this as much if not more than they are.
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A reader, Kevin, writes (3 March 2005): First you can talk about it with him and find out what he likes. This is something that many couples don't do,they feel uncomfortable talking about it or are to embarrassed to say what they like, out of fear of judgment. Guys like to be touched too, well most do,usually whatever a guy is doing to you is something that he likes. There are sex games you can play that make it easier to open up and tell your fantasies, your desires. Tease during foreplay. Don't think that he wants you to go straight to his penis, although he probably won't complain too much, just play with his body and pay attention to his reactions and you will figure out what he likes. If you would like more detailed info e-mail me at [email address blocked]
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