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writes:What does he think of me??my "teacher", he isnt a classoom teacher, have feelings for me...more than a student relationship. Or is it Friendship or more than that relationship? Also if you have ever had a student teacher relationship could you explain everything and how it happenedthings we do:-spend over and hour talking in office about things we like to do and our lives-Email, if he wants to talk to me he will email me, at night-Always stares at me(looks at me)-Always asks about my boyfriend and will say something bad-Doesn's say too much with my bf around, but he always says somethig to me-Told me he doesnt want me leaving to college bc college boys- talks bad about other teachers to me-swears to me Is this a friendship relationship? or more? we are close. Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): He is far to old for you. Is he married does he have a family? I think you should stop wondering if this guy has feelings for you. You have a boyfriend so spend more time with him, if hes a decent guy.What kind of relationship could you possibly have with a guy his age, your poles apart. I just hope he isnt grooming you!To me, hes just doing his job but you are seeing something different. Just get on with your young life and enjoy it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnon. writer,
he is about 30-35 I believe. Idk he just will say something about my bf putting him down. And he talks about teachers and says they're (certain ones) conceited, selfish ad other stuff. idk if he is like this because we are close and he see's us like friends? My friends say that we are super close and a little more but nothing really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): OP Im the anon writer, I think this guy is just showing you concern. Why does he 'bad talk' your boyfriend? He should not bad mouth teachers and another student aswell, he is not being professional in his job.
Do you know how old this guy is? If he is showing an interest in you then he is abusing his postion and should not be allowed back into your school.
Have you talked to any of your friends about him? I work in a school and teachers, support staff or councellors would not behave in this manner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondear anon. writer, :), he is, but he woul tell me to come down. We would just talk about life, the world, things we want to do, random things. He brings upmy boyfriend all the time, and just says something bad about him. He talks about teachers to me and just trashes them. I dont mean like interest in being together, but is it like he see's us more as friends. We were talking about a student and they dont have a good relationship and he's like "that isn't us! We don't have any problems" We are supppper close, but idk if all of the things I listed, that happen, are more of a friendship or another type of relationship instead of a student/teacher one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): Im the anon writer. If he is a counsellor are you talking to him about some problems you have, or, are you just going to see this guy because you do have feelings for him?
If you do have problems, which you are talking to him about, then he is just doing his job and showing concern for you. He is not showing interest in you to have a relationship. You are still a student and he is not allowed to have a relationship with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto the anon. writer, He has an office though, it's his job to talk to students. he is a counslor
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): Your teacher should not be alone with you in an office or emailing you at night or swearing to you. This guy could lose his job through this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut how did that start? who started it? and thank you, does it sound like a friendship kind of thing?
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