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41-50,
*een
writes:The thing is that i met a guy through social network website , then he added me on Facebook , i liked his pictures , he looks amazing like my dream man , i gave him my number and he texted me , i asked him to meet up but he said it is too early ,next day we chatted for long hours , almost the whole day ended by a phone call lasted for 55 minutes , next day i texted him he didnt reply , i texted again he didnt , i sent him a message on FB to know if he wants to know me more or no ! he didnt gave a clear answer , i deleted his number and all the messages and tried to forget him , which is not easy , i know its silly to say this while we haven't met yet , but i am thinking of him all the time, cant get him out of my mind , after 2 days without even a word , he texted me today and he said my day was bad at work and what made it worse is that i havent got a message from you since 2 days , i wanted to ignore but i couldn't , i replied him , then i asked him to catch up for coffee , he said i dont feel like to go out today cause my hair is too long and looks ugly !!!! i tried to call him he ignored my calls and texts , now i am wondering shall i keep going with this guy or forget him totally , i already deleted his number but he remains on my Facebook , what shall i do ? remove him , talk to him , message him ? he is totally strange but super handsome
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2011): Thanks everyone for your answer , i met him the same day that i posted this question, as he kept texting , he insisted to come to my place , he looks as the same as his photos, i offered him a drink and we started chatting and watching TV , it was late after midnight , once he finished his drink he started kissing me without even asking about it , which i could resist , we had great sensual session last until the morning , i was not looking after sex but i couldn’t stop him ! i told him at the end of the night i am scared to have more feelings for u as , u seem to not an easy going and looking for sex maybe ? , he said i hope that too !!!! which pissed me off . then he left home and rejected to sleep here , the next day he texted me and said did u miss me ?
one more thing i am a college teacher and i told him that i have a crush on one of my student , he seemed to be jealous and started asking about him, his age, looks , even his car !! and who is better me or him !
This guy is strange ? he seems to be only after sex which is not my thing and i am looking for more serious things with him
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 Keep him deleted. He's playing games with you...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 Cut off the contact and move on. He is playing you big time, when he wants some attention he looks to you for it, but he is not willing to do the same for you. He is making excuses not to meet up with you, which is a big red flag alert that the photos you are seeing on facebook is not who he really is but a fake profile set up so that he can get attention from young vulnerable girls. Get out now before you end up hurt or worse. He is just using you to make himself feel good that someone is showing him attention, he has no intentions of meeting up with you. Believe me. Remove him as a friend and go out and meet people in the real world.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (2 November 2011):
I have a feeling the guy you spoke with on the phone looks nothing like the guy in the pictures on the social networking profile. You may want to just break off contact. He will continue to make excuses instead of dates.
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