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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello there...I seem to have trouble finding a boyfriend.Im turning 16 ina month and it seems i will be able to use a car before i get to use my lips to kiss a boy...Quite sad, yes.I long for a boyfriend, but its not like im desperate. Infact, guys think im the oppposite and well, its not working. Its not like i have 0 guy friends, i do... but i want something more. Nowadays it seems that girls get their first bf/kiss before 7th grade... and i have lied when telling people about the first kiss ive never had. Only because if i were to tell everyone i have never, they would ALL laugh....Im social, and friendly, and definetly not hideous.Guys even call me hot. ;]Then why is it i feel alone and... not loved?I want to feel loved, is all. I dont care if it lasts or not, i just wanna feel loved for a little bit.I want someone to call me his girl.Is that too much to ask?Sorry if im why as heck, but could you answer and tell me, WHAT am i doing wrong?Or what can i do to fix my "bad luck" ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Nothing. Just 'cause you haven't been in a relationship yet doesn't mean a thing. Society will put a lotta pressure on you like that (I lied about my experience with girls till I was 16) and I let myself be who I was and it paid off. If you're forced into a relationship for whatever reason, it won't have the same meaning as one that happens naturally.
To sum things up, keep being yourself, when a guy who wants to date you/be with you for who you are shows up, you'll be glad you waited.
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