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writes: hi, i'm 16 and so is this other girl at school who i fancy. i've fancied her for 3years. i really love her but never told her, no one knows but myself. well actually one other girl knows who is my friend. i'm mad about her, i was gonna ask her out until my friend told me she was already goin out with another boy. i was really hurt and upset. i fancied her for all this time and i get nothing in return. i had her everysingle pictures we took at school. and i was obsessed with them so looks so pretty in them. i'm also her friendanyway i was upset so i called up my friend. she's a girl. she knows i like that girl. so she said ok i'll meet you tomorrow. this girl recently started going out with another boy and got busy with him and forgot her friends. i hated that boy before they went out, and i started hating my friend. my friend told me if i dont stop annoying her boyfriend she will tell the other girl i fancy. i was really hurt that my friend was goin to spill my secret. basically my friends boyfriend who i hated brang his friends and i brang mine. we used to play football once a week same place same time. i played very aggressive trying to hurt him and he did it back.anyway his girlfriend who was my friend one day couldn't take it no more so she said sorry to me. she said she was a fool to forget about our friendship. anyway 1month later we are good friends but i still hate her boyfriend.so she met me today and we sat in the park. she asked me and i explained all my feelings i had for that other girl i fancied. she was really comforting. we talked for over 2hours. she cheered me up and we were talkin about other stuff like friends, school etc. but i think i like her now. i never did before. 1month ago i hated her. but i've got feelings for her now. but i'm not sure if i fancy the other girl or this friend. this friend told me she loves her boyfriend but thinks he is too busy with his mates. i think she will go out with me when she's single. but do i really fancy her? or am i just upset about the other girl i fancied who has got a boyfriend. any way how could find out if she likes me or how much i like her?sorry about writing a essay. i'm writing all this from my phone because i'm desperate to ask. my computer is occupied. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont my friend will know, because we really only met because I was upset when I found the girl I fancied was with another boy. I talked to her and it made me feel lighter. What should I do? shall I tell her to keep meeting me, for no reason? because she will I think!
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reader, Green Eyed Gabriel +, writes (2 September 2006):
 The likihood is that you feel something for your friend as you say you know her quite well and therefore you should stop thinking about this other girl... If you want to find out if she feels anything for you, you could try flirting but as this girl is your friend and can possibley tell when you are flirting you should try your hardest to make the flirting seem innocent, she may well push it a little futher if she feels soemething for you.
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