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anonymous
writes:Been with my bf for 6 months and im at the stage where my mind is constantly working and thinking about his ex. He broke up with her last year after 4 yrs together but they seem to still be close and share the same group of friends. He has never mentioned her to me but ive done my own digging and believe me shes appears a lot in gatherings to do with his running club and hiking. I dont think hes the type to cheat but i do have my suspicions and my mind keeps working overtime on this and im wearing myself down.The only way i can see now is to end things which i totally dont want to do because what happens if im totally wrong? I also dont feel like id know what to say if i confronted him as he doesn know that i have so much ino. Pls can someone give me some advice... x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): Screw that answer that some guy put on here. Clearly he doesn't have a clue what he is talking about and really needs to take off his rose tinted specs!!!
Unfortunatly you are going to have to ask your man a few questions, I had the same thing with an ex, (that is not the reason why we broke up) I couldnt understand that him and his ex gf ran in the same circles. I was driving myself mad with it!! She was everywhere??
The thing is, if he wanted to be with her, he would be.
what you need to do is tell him you know that he still sees his ex and ask if this is something you should be worried about (this way you are not attacking him with the question and he is being given a chance to put your mind at ease about this situation)
You will know from his answer if you should be worried or not, this question is a leading question into others like "why they broke up" "how does he feel when he see's her"etc. Dont push him though!!! You dont want to upset him cause then you get nowhere.
I think you will be able to keep your secret digging quiet!!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): You cannot suffer forever. Just break up.
Modern-day promiscuity sucks, doesn't it? Not the heaven mass media portray it to be? I thought so! Faithfulness is the cornerstone of serenity, most people want it but few ever want to give it because, well, it's the new world order and everyone gets to do what they want! Free for all! And no one dare criticize libertines for their excessive freedom!
Find yourself a guy with a great PERSONALITY and see if you can marry him. Most problems will be gone then, I promise.
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