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writes:Classic Hopeless Romantic Case. Unrequited Love.So about 5 years ago I met this girl, and after having many conversations with her, we clicked. We were almost the same despite being almost opposite. (She's a prep, I'm a metal head. I'm jewish, she's latin. I'm a artist, she's a dancer.)I really felt something for her. I actually cared for her but I never had the courage to express them to her. However when I finally did, she looked me straight in the eye and just gave me a hug. And did'nt say anything.I found out a week later that she had a boyfriend.I thought I was starting to get over it. I grieved for a while but then I tried to move on. It changed my outlook. For a while I was bitter and hated all the double standards, and everything else that goes with love. But I realized nothing would change If I continued to think that way. Now I not so quick to judge, and I've learned to forgive. I started to think that there's a brightside to this.However, I recently learned that she's getting married, to the same guy she's been with. And now, I'm starting to feel depressed all over again. Thinking on the what could have beens. And starting to think that maybe there is no point in life.Is there a brightside to heartbreak?
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reader, queen14 +, writes (21 August 2010):
 Hey there I read ur story n brok my heart um really sorry u had 2 threw that, but sadly only time will help u just have patients good this come 2 those who wait, don't worry ull meet someone that's right 4 u mean while her she's dumb n immature 4 actually playing games n leading u on but don't worry carma's a bitch, my best wishes go on 2 u
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