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Suspicious phone calls are coming in for him but he swears he knows nothing! Any advice?

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Question - (11 June 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend is accusing me of being jealous and crazy. We spend evenings together up until a certain time then he rushes out at the same time every night or I leave. Well I was getting suspicious so I overstayed a few nights last week and sure enough, his cell starts ringing about 10. He claims not to know the number even though its in his contact list. This was a woman he works with (married) that has been calling. Also on Saturday night she called twice, once was pretty late. He claims it was business but never picks up or talks to her until i'm gone. He swore he didnt' know the number on his cell yet it was also in his 'outgoing" for weeks now. Am I being overly jealous or am I right on!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007):

He is cheating, why wouldn't take the call in front of you to ease your mind ? He has something to hide.If I were you take the number and use someone elses phone and talk to her. Follow him or have someone watch him. He is cheating.

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A male reader, badger United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2007):

Sorry it really does sound like he's cheating. I'm amazed he's still denying it !! Try and think about yourself and what you want......good luck....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I did some investigating - i answered it next time her number came up and she hung up on me when I asked who was calling.

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A male reader, Jubbaloo United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2007):

Jubbaloo agony auntI have an idea, see if you can get the chance to ring her off his phone, see what the answer is like. To me he's up to no good. Sorry but thats what it sounds like. Dont dwell on him too long, lifes too short

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (11 June 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'm afraid it certainly sounds like he's up to no good. The question is what are you going to do about it? If he adamantly denies it then all you can do is believe him or do some more investigating.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007):

Hi babes,

It would ring ten thousand bells in my head, im being honest. It sounds all over the place if this was a mate he would i would have thought have no probs in talking in front of you.. And why not just be open with you, Talk with him again love... I REALLY HOPE IM NOT RIGHT!!!!!

TAKE CARE OF YOU XXXX

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