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writes:6 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me and I was hung up on him for months.I'm finally starting to get my life back on track but I feel as though he's holding me back.Even though he broke up with me he holds a grudge against me and because we are in the same friend group it really gets at me when he makes horrible sarcastic comments when I'm trying to be civil.My friends tell me he's never been the same since we broke up which makes me terribly comments, and I'm told he feels like "somethings missing".I still love him deep down, what should I do?
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reader, Midge +, writes (11 June 2007):
 Firstly, if he loves you like he might do, the worst thing you can do is make sarcastic comments. It doesnt exactly instill the feelings of love, rather resentment. So if he were feeling about you in a loving way, boy is he going about it in the wrong way!
Secondly, you need to get on with your life, without him hanging onto your skirt! Get some of your friends and go out somewhere else that he wont be there!
A first love is always the hardest to get over, but honestly it does get better!
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reader, Jubbaloo +, writes (11 June 2007):
 Talk to him, away from friends, see how he feels. But if he is making things unbearable then maybe you shouldnt want to be with him anyway. I think the most important thing is to make him feel as if he isnt affecting you, jobe back at him when he makes these comments. Bring a date to one of these gatherings. If he's teasing you, Tease him back!
Good luck
Hope this helps
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