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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey all,i have been with my husband for a good couple of years now and we have been trying for a baby for the last 3.We have been told we are 'not' infertile, as i am ovulating normally and he is more then fertile,we are what the doctors are caling 'unknown infertility'which to be honest doesnt help us much, they wont recommend us to have IVF as we are not infertile in the actual sense, however i have been put on a few different Hormones over the last year and it has still come to nothing.We are not giving up, we refuse to, if it comes to it we will adopt after a couple more years of trying. But still the doctors and specialist dont feel that it will come to that they still feel that 3years is not that long......Personally i feel like we have been trying for an entire ice-age and i desperatly wish i had more females in my life who were in the same situation as me, so we could share eachothers experiences, etc....However all of my friends are either mums already or have no wish to be a mum in the future so i dont really know of anyone who can relate to what im going threw.My husband is copeing in his own way-just getting on with work (we both run big companies) so really theres no real time to brood and feel sorryfor myself anyway-but if anyone knows of any website that puts you intouch with other couples that are in this situation, it would be greatly appreciated.Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011): i would suggest doing the medical research yourselves that way you know exactly what the specialist know. try looking for ovulation test kits they can at least let you know your "peak" times. the egg can drop anytime, and sometimes during your period. if your relationship is good with your parents especially your mother, she may be able to help. check into your diet that can sometimes prevent and even abort. in the mean time have fun and enjoy each other. and good luck
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