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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for only a month. A problem has kicked off about our age difference (13-16) and his mum kicked off about me being to young. And now i found out he doesnt love me! Im so heartbroken but when i asked him is it true he said yes. Then i said do you love me? and he said that is a hard question to answer. We are still together but not talking that much. Hes confused and doesnt know what he is feeling but i dont know what happened?? Can anyone help me please?thank you x
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (22 May 2007):
 Sorry to hear you're heartbroken, but it was very unfair of you to put him on the spot like that. Of course he doesnt truly LOVE you yet, it has only been a month. He probably wasn't even thinking about it. In the early stages of a relationship, it is infatuation that is felt, and not love, which you seem to have confused it with. It takes time getting to know someone to truly love them. When you are older you will understand that.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 May 2007):
 He can get into a lot of trouble dating someone your age. His mother is just looking out for her son's well-being. He probably is uncomfortable with the age differnece and I don't blame him, Jail is certainly not fun. Where are your parents?
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reader, dooza +, writes (21 May 2007):
 sorry to hear about your heartbreak.you may find that someone else as entered the picture and your boyfriend doesnt know how to end the relationship with you.you need to sit down and ask questions to see where you stand.if he doesnt love you do you think the relationship can carry on.please dont let him walk over you.i believe the right one will come along and love you with all his heart.
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reader, Mellys +, writes (21 May 2007):
 The age seems to be a factor but I don't really believe one can really fall in love in a month, so don't be alarmed by his answers. He may be just as confused as you are right now. I'm sure all the changes in him have a lot to do with your age and having his mother pressing him isn't helping either. I'll tell you what I have learned through the years, be patient and with time, everything will be revealed. I hope this has been helpful.
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