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writes: Here it goes...... i am 16 years old and i have a very big problem...i am currently in a relationship with the man (boy) of my dreams. It seems as if all of a sudden a lot of boys have been attracted to me. I have had about 3 or 4 boyfriends prior to now. Within this past week my ex-boyfriends called me out of the blue, though i stopped talking to them that much. All four of them called me and were like they still love me and want me back and are very devastated right now because they lost me. Only two of them know i have a boyfriend now and they are willing to fight over me, and i dont want that. I'm so confused on what i should do....i don't want to start any confusion, but i wanna be happy too. I want to confront everyone about the situation, but i want to do it in a nice way and not hurt anyone's feelings...what should i do?p.s. if my boyfriend found out about this he would be very angry. Though i still have feelings for one of my ex boyfriends.
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reader, lady yab +, writes (12 October 2005):
Girl first of all be happy that you have all of those men wanting you. And it's always like that when you are getting involved in a relationship that's when everybody comes out of the blue. Another reason could be that once your ex-boyfriends see that you have someone new they realize what they've lost and want to get you back. So I think you should just take it one day at a time and enjoy life. Who says that your current relationship is going to last forever don't get me wrong it could but you're only 16. You have a long time to settle down because trust me this is only the beginning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2005): Its a case of the old saying..dont know what you have got til its gone..do what is right and best for you because when it comes down to it your happiness is whats most important.
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