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writes:Hey!Well im slightly puzzled and annoyed at the fact that so many people on the site always say us girlies - omg! u will mkae him loose his job this that and the next thing, or that we are totally imaginin things that are there and there is no way a teacher could ever like us, or that we do not know what love is.well chaps! if he/she was to loose there job it wouldnt be our faults, surely? it would be theres i mean there the teachers right? they should know way better than us love stricken teens, if a student was to jsut lay it on a plate for a teacher and he took up the offer how does that make us look bad? he basically jsut brings out the real him and shows what a pervert the man must be. Sum of people on this site does now know wht it feels like to be in a classroom nowadays, teachers arent strict like they used to be and we do not imagine or make up things they may say-and no matter wht u think Male teachers are flirty.Why do people say to u on this site - ''ohh you are takin every little thing into account, he doesnt like you'' - maybe we wouldnt feel this way if the teachers themselves didnt single us out and treat us way differently... its not our faults!i can tell u know that yeah, i am in love with a teacher, and he aint the most nicest lookin guy to everyone but he is to me and it wasnt attraction that made me attracted to him at first it was his sense of humour and the way he treats me... It teachers own fault - i mean why filrt with students? and dnt say they dnt coz they all do i bet if we asked every girl on this site wed get a huge majority that would agree, and why must teachers make u feel speical?like for instance my teacher - Joe.... =]always tells me tht im his sytar pupil that im the best in his department, that im this and im that and i can tell him anything and that hell never say no to me for anything and that im his priority??? i mean wtf? with sum1 always bein nice to u ur gonna start to like em one day right?and cmon im a decent girl, i aint a bully victim i dnt have and depressions or whatever, im just ur tyipical teen so why does he favour me? yeah i perfrom good in his class but theres like 10 others that do so ... so cmon try n tell me now that teachers dnt always have it comin to themand also, we may be young but we know what love is!Okay... i mean have u never heard of young love? yknow ppl tht have been togeather since they have been 14-15-16??? so i guess we must know what love is then yeah?and btw most of us ARE in love with our teachers... and if u ask me teachers know that we are in love with them and get a kick outta basicall annoyin us and showin off that we can never have them... so bascaiilwe know what love is teachers arent so innocent themselvesand tey ask for pupils to fall in lovesorry i had to get this all off my chestx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): Thank you so much for posting this :-)!!! Its soo true scientists hv proved that teenagers fall more in love at the attraction phase thn adults in fact brain scans show the feelings are as pleasurable as taking cocaine is but most teenagers dont enter the commitment stages like adults do . Also a lot of teachers flirt 99% is innocent i dont believe thy should be either fired or reported for it. Another point i would like to make is we know when someone is flirting be tht a teenage boy or a teacher we also know when it crosses the line into innapropiate in fact the girls in my class are reporting a teacher fr innappropiate comments and fr everyone who says its unproffesional i for one know i get better marks in a class if my relationship with a teacher is good. On the other hand i think if a teacher truly was in love with you he would wait until you graduated :/ and i also agree with the poster who says both sides probably find tge forbidden fruit thing exciting. - sorry its so late i only found this question when looking fr another
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): Wooooooow, this is amazing - a real true insight as to what it REALLY is....I'm glad I joined this site :)
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reader, Abbiestar +, writes (2 November 2009):
 Yes, teachers do flirt with us students. The teacher I have a crush on always has the biggest smile when he sees me, we hug, he calls me pretty girl, gorgeous, his favourite student, princess. Even sometimes when I'm with my friends he calls them all pretty but remarks that I'M gorgeous. Of course it doesn't bother me, but tell me isn't that flirting? He tells me he's so happy to see me and sometimes we can like run to each other and hug and stuff and some other days we're just like very awkward. Like we want to hug but then stop and just wave at each other.
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reader, AdviceGiverandReceiver +, writes (19 May 2009):
Yeah this subject is a complicated thing. But someone ALWAYS finds out. I know people who have been in relationships with teachers and they done get cleanly cut off like some normal relationships. They usually end in people finding out. Of course I wouldn't know if they was a sucessful teacher/student relationship because they would have managed to keep that from people. BUT it may be his fault if he loses his job, or a girlfriend he's been cheating on, but if anything sexual happened between the two at the wrong age, then he could be charged which means you wouldn't see him. Cutting someone out of you life sucks, if you waited then you could date him legally when you're older which would be a proper relationship.
But some people will realize when they are older the don't find it forbidden so it's not as exciting, so who says it would last anyway?
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reader, sunnyd223  +, writes (12 May 2009):
I Know what you mean i hate it when people tell tou that your 14 you dont know what love is its just puppy love they say what a lie my grndparents got married at 15 and are still together.The teacher thing is so complicated i to am in love with my teacher and some of the things he says to me make me feel wonderfull i can relate to him.When he hugs me i feel safe in his arms like nothing can happen to me like the world is there but as long as i am with him i am safe you know.But he dosnt know i like him and to tell you the truth he flirts like crazy.I love him so much and hopefully if god answers my prayers i will have him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): Can you imagine how many other girls have fell for the 'oh, we'll be together forever' idea with a teacher? I'm sure your male teachers have been around the block or two. If they're flirty, they're unprofessional.
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reader, xSpacexDementiax +, writes (19 December 2007):
 I completely agree with you.
*Nods*
I think people on this site seem to forget that teachers are humans too, and that the average 15/16/17 year old girl does not look, and in most cases, does not act like a child.
Teachers DO flirt with their students, they DO have relationships with them, I know at least two girls who have ended up with a teacher, and that's just people that I live near.
I'm not condoning teacher/student things... I kind of have something going with a teacher, but Ive not crossed any barriers or done anything wrong, and I'm gonna try and wait it out because I KNOW that he's the one. I speak to him everyday for hours at a time, he is the first person I go to with a problem, he got me into The Smiths and other such great bands, we share a love of poetry, he is one of my closest friends.
And I would challenge anyone to come and spend some time with us and deny that there's chemistry fizzing away between us.
I don't care anymore about what people say, I know that I love him, I know that he has feelings for me, and one day I will be with him.
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