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Stuck in a love-triangle with a guy who doesn't know I fancy him!

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Question - (23 July 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have fancied this lad for near enough three years and I can't get over him because he's really good-looking and funny and he's really sweet to me.

A few days ago, I was talking to this girl in the year beneath me at school and she really likes him as well. When I started crying because I knew we would never go out at this rate and I can't get over him, she comforted me and told me that she won't go out with him because it wouldn't be fair on me.

He doesn't know I fancy him so he told me that he fancies this girl and I was really upset but I pretended not to be. I wasn't really worreid because she had promised me that she wouldn't go out with him, but over msn when I was online he told me they were going out and now I can't get over her and that she broke a promise to me. But worst of all I can't get over him and I know we're never going to be able to go out. What should I do?

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2006):

Angelicc agony auntWhy haven't you told this guy you liked him? The girl shouldn't of made the promise she made to you but you can't stop him going out with who he pleases. If you never let this guy know how you feel you'll never really let go and move on. He may not feel the same but its best to know now rather then wait around for him. Just tell him

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A female reader, chazx United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2006):

chazx agony auntok well what i think is that you should think about anything you say to your friend she may have broken a promise but as long as she is happy i am sure that is all that matter there will be other boys for you. and i am sure that boy will come online very soon ok.

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A female reader, kat14 United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2006):

kat14 agony auntwell first of all this is a very hard position for ur mate to be in. I know she upset u but she didnt mean to. you cant always think of other people and this kinda thing happens all the time nearly everyone goes thru it.

As for the guy i think you should tell him that u like him n thats why u have been abit off with him recently. You never know u may have a chance with him in the future hang in there. But remember there are plenty of fish in the sea.

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