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writes:Okay, Basically I'm kinda stuck between two people. So theres this guy who I'm attracted to, and he is gorgeous but I don't know him that well, only had a few conversations but he seems really nice and we get on. and theres this other guy Ive known for a while now, (we actually didnt even like each other up untill quite recently) and we started talking and found out we have a hell of a lot in common. We clicked straight away and can have a real laugh. So heres the comlicated part, my friend likes him and he's moving away at the end of the summer. I can't lead both guys on because that doesn't feel right. So I'd just like to see some other veiw pionts on the subject, thanks for reading :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (24 June 2010):
 It doens't sound like either one has asked you out. How can you be sure that you have a choice between two guys? Or are you just so sure that you can have any guy if you put your mind to it? Maybe both of them are contemplating between you and someone else.
Why don't you just remain friends with them both and whoever makes a move first, obviously, go with him.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 That's easy. Pick the guy you just met and say bye to the one who's moving away at the end of the summer. If you had to choose, that means neither one of that had claimed you as the love of their life. If you are not going to terribly miss the guy who's leaving, that means you don't have a lot invested in the relationship and there's no worry about making him sad.
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reader, m.j  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 get to know both guys.....BUT.....as friends. spend some time thinking about what you know about them.good and BAD.be sure to find out as much of their baggage as possible and which ever one has to much baggage just remain friends with that one.
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