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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm in love with my boyfriend whom I've been with about a year and a half or so, and it's perfect together. but recently i've acquired this gradual adoration for an older man that i work with. im 17, and this man is 37- but we click! all day we talk and smile and laugh and we have made it apparent to eachother that we like eachother's presence. i'm so smitten, but my love of my life and i have an intense and strong relationship. this older man is married, and has been for 10 years or so. i can't help but to think of him constantly. i feel like there are so many small hints that he's attracted to me and likes me, like long eye contact, constant joking and smiling because of eachother. and i won't lie, i am very attracted to everything about the man! i'm at a loss as to what to do, does anyone have any advice?
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Don't get involved with a married man...He's more than likely just being nice to you because your sweet. He probably wouldn't leave his wife for you. He is in a committed marriage...that means he's off limits.
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reader, chicanababygul09 +, writes (22 January 2009):
me personally, i feel that you should just stay with your current boyfriend. in all relationships you'll have trial and tribulations. this older guy is married, even though you feel you have a connection. he's more then likely not going to leave his wife for you. (sorry if it sounds harsh)
plus is this man worth giving up your relationship? but if you dont feel as connected with your current boyfriend, ask the guy your interested in, where ya'll stand. hope this helps
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