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writes:My ex ended it because he said anything between us was doomed to disaster. To add insult to injury he said we should not communicate at all except in a group setting with others around. Needless to say I never want to be bothered with him again...knee jerk reaction. There is a function we will both be at next week and because he is the type who needs and wants the ego stroke and attention he often tries to do things to wind me up. I have started to avoid places where he is and it is working...he really is becoming pretty unimportant in my mind. It would be great if I could just avoid the function so I do not have to see him but it is hard because it is something I would enjoy.It would never occurr to him to leave so that I might have the opportunity to attend the function. I wonder if he will think he chased me away if I do not go but he acts like a jerk to me. He also has a possessive new girlfriend. Should I stay or go. I can avoid functions for now and always start going later. Reply to this Question
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reader, chicanababygul09  +, writes (22 January 2009):
me personally, if you want to go to the function, then go. dont let yur ex control you, he's going. so what? who cares you should be able to enjoy yourself also. ignore him, have fun. and if he try's to start things then just ignore him, and know that, thats all he's trying to do. and if you get mad, he's getting his way.
hope this helps
good luck
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