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writes:Hey I’m 32 and always thought I’m straight but recently found myself very attracted to older men around 50. I have fantasies of pleasing them. Do you think this fantasy is left alone or should I find someone. Idea of cuddles turns me on and to submit to them. Any suggestions ? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2022): Dude you only live once. Find an attractive older guy and tell him about your fantasy that you are an anal virgin and so he needs to be incredibly gentle. You will make this guys year and you will fulfill your fantasy. A win-win. If you find yourself grossed out at any point (e.g. by his very smell, etc.) you will know that this fantasy should just stay in the realm of fantasy. As a halfway point the next time you have a girlfriend, after you get comfortable with each other sexually tell her it is a sexual das tray of yours to have her peg you and fuck your ass with a strap on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2022): If you're straight as you claim, you wouldn't be having the kind of fantasies you're describing about men. Maybe you just have daddy-issues due to an aloof or distant/absentee father who didn't show you affection as a child. You didn't explain what you mean by "pleasing" them. I don't think a straight-man would have such detailed and sexually-specific desires towards other men.
I'm not going to suggest pursuing encounters of the nature you describe; if you are certain you're heterosexual. It would be going quite far simply to pacify a passing curiosity. It would be somewhat traumatizing to a heterosexual-male to find himself in such a predicament.
Sometimes just being curious doesn't have to be acted-out. Many times, people try things that they can't deal with afterwards. No matter what we tell you, it is likely that if your urges are strong enough; you'll do whatever it takes to satisfy them.
If you want to live a completely heterosexual-lifestyle, and you are emotionally and physically attracted to women; I would suggest you leave the fantasies within the realm of your imagination.
If you bring them into reality, and act them out; you will no longer be able to claim you are a heterosexual. You will be most assuredly homosexual, or bisexual. Straight-men do not have recurrent urges to have sex or cuddle with other men...or to perform any kind of sexual act with someone of the same-sex. If the urges and desires to be with a man in the ways you've described don't pass; then you may be gay or bisexual. It's entirely up to you if, or when, you will cross that line.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2022): testing
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