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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am in a relationship which began about 3 and a half years ago. I have always imagined marrying my boyfriend, having children, all the rest, up till about a week ago.It is true that he does annoy me lately, pretty much every day as whenever I have a story to tell or generally want to have a chat he acts as though he can't hear me and instead concentrates on the TV or starts singing along to the car radio. He always says sorry and promises that he doesn't mean to but he never seems to act the same with anybody else.I went to a festival last week and got chatting to some other people and actually got on with one guy who I quite like. The thing is I didnt want to tell him that I have a bf and nothing happened at all but he wants to meet up with me soon.I didn't miss my bf at all and don't feel excited to see him like I used to. This has come on very suddenly which is why I don't want to act too quickly in case my feelings change back. Especially when I am reminded of the quote 'Never leave the one you love for the one you like, as the one you like will leave you for the one they love'I like this other guy and I would like to meet him to see how it goes but at the moment I feel I should just try and put it off for a while to see if my feelings grow back for my bf. This is making me quite miserable though. Is this the right thing to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, kez411 +, writes (30 July 2009):
 it takes two to make a relationship work and it is obvious that you are the only person in the relationship who is trying... becaus your relationship with your boyfriend has lasted soo long he doesnt expect you to leave him and he feels that since you have stuck up with him for soo long, he doesnt need to try with you anymore... I think your relationship with your boyfriends is at a dead end and you should give the other guy a chance cause by the sound of things, you havnt got alot to loose. good luck bbe. xx
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