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writes:my mother died when I was 1,after 3 years my father remarried,but my mother was from London,We stay in India,I have a step sister,she is 8 years younger than me.we started having sex when she was 15,my parents do not know about has they are very busy in the own life.we are very rich, its been 2 years we still have sex,my parents died in accident,we are now living has couple,and even changed our city,my sister is pregent.dr.say the child is healthy,i am faithful to my sister and never had known another girl,can we have problems in future life? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): Since she is your stepsister, you are not blood-related, which means you do not have a common ancestor, like a parent, grandparent, etc. So you shouldn't have any health related problems and neither should the baby. But you need to check the laws in your country to see if stepsiblings are allowed to marry or have sex. The laws there might be the only problem, so you might want to talk to a lawyer about that issue.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 The only thing I can think of in this situation is that the sex started when she was 15 (a minor) and you were 23.
Also, were you her guardian during this time, and could it be that you abused your authority over her?
2 years later makes her only 17 now, which means she still might be a minor legally where you are, and if you are her legal guardian, esp since your parents have died, these may be issues for which you could be persecuted for.
-Frank
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reader, sparkleprincess  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 is she your step sister or your half sister? because if she is 8 years younger than you and her mother married your father when you were 4, it doesnt really make sense. if she's your half sister you may hsve problems but if she is just your stepsister and there is no blood relation between you, you should be ok. hope this helps x
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reader, Too Sensitive  +, writes (28 January 2009):
Well she is your stepsister, so there is no bloodline there. The only issues you may have are with culture and society in general, as they may frown upon your situation.
I know someone who married his stepsister and they had 2 children together (though they've since divorced, but that had nothing to do with their being stepsiblings). The family accepted it and dealt with it. It was not considered incest, b/c they were only related by their two different parents each getting married to each other in a 2nd marriage. She was born to 2 parents during their first marriage, and he was born to 2 completely different parents during their first marriage. The 2nd marriage involving one of each of their parents resulted in teenagers from each of the first marriages living under the same roof together (such as what happened in your life).
I am so sorry for the loss of your parents. If you and your stepsister love each other and are planning to have a child together and are happy together, then what happens should be up to the two of you, not anyone else. Does anyone else in the family know about your relationship, or are you trying to keep it a secret for fear of judgement?
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