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writes: Hey everyone, I have a real problem facing me. I have been with my current boyfriend for 18 months and out of the blue my ex-boyfriend has told me he really wants to be with me. I then spent the night at his just catching up because we hadnt seen each other for a while. We had a cuddle and it brought back all my feelings for him. We have such chemistry between us it is so intense! Which is completely different to my current boyfriend. With my current boyfriend we absolutely adore each other but our sex life is hardly alive and i dont fancy him so much. Should i go back to my ex or stay with my current boyfriend who is almost perfect apart from the sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2006): If you dont't want to see someone naked thats called a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006): It's easier said than done!I have been in a similar situation.I know the decision I made.I went for the almost perfect boyfriend who in time will be perfect.It was one of the hardest thongs I've ever done,butI would and did stick with the current boyfriend.It sounds like your ex is jealous and wants a challeng.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2006): Sex isnt the foundations of a great relationship, and if your relationship with this other guy finished, it was probably for the best as now you are with a guy who you 'absolutely adore'. You know what is right really, to stay with your current boyfriend, and whose heart you would break by leaving him for hot sex. Spice up your current relationship in bed, and then you will have the best of both worlds.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2006): I am a nice guy but my girlfriend dosent really fancy me and is not satisfied in bed. My fear is that she will cheat on me because of this. Infact it drives me mad thinking about it. If your boyfriend feels this way too then by you leaving him for better sex would devestate him. Ask yourself, do you want a happy relationship or do you just want to have good sex and a crap relationship. Generally you cant have a man that can give you both.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (8 January 2006):
 I'd say stay with the current BF. You can always jazz up your sex life with him, and if he's "almost perfect" in every other way, you can have a man who's a great match for you.
Try some new, spontaneous sexual ideas with the current boyfriend, and leave your Ex in the past. Sex is great if the relationship is stable and happy, but you split with him for a reason, right? Go back to the ex and you'll be going back to the same problems you left.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2006): stay with ur boyfriend. Just remember the reason u and ur ex finished. =]
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