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writes: please answer my question. i like this girl in my year (im 16) and i think she may know i do. we are pretty close with each other and we went to a party and we cuddled all night and when we had to leave we kissed each other on the cheek. now yesterday i found out she had got me a birthday card and we have been texting each other as well.so does anyone think i have a chance of going out with her? and i know it's a bit off yet but im thinking of doing this for valentines day:take her to a quite place and give her chocolates,a poem and i will put rose petals in a card.in the card it will say 'will you go out with me'does this sound a good idea or is it to much? i no she isn't the type of person to laugh at me if i do this. But i don't want to over do it. so shall i cut back on any of it? because i don't want to scare her. Please answer my question i want peoples opinions and advice. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): How did it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2006): Hey dude! Take it from me...she likes you. But also believe this. If you wait until Valentines Day, another guy might also ask her out (after all, it is the day when people do that kind of thing, especially at 16). I am sure she would want to go out with you anyway, as you sound like a great guy, but dont comprimise it if you dont have to. She sounds like she wants to go out with you as much as you do her, so just go for it NOW. Dont put it off or get cold feet, and dont do it by text message either. Get her alone and ask her face to face. The spoil her rotten on Valentines day with card, roses and chocolates. Take it from a guy who was your age only 5 years ago, GO FOR IT, and go for it right now!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (8 January 2006):
 I think it sounds like a great idea, all of it, just as it is.
But from what you've described here, she'd probably be interested in going out with you much sooner than Valentine's Day, so why not ask her out sooner, rather than waiting another 5 or 6 weeks?
Good luck! You sound like you have a romantic streak a mile wide, and girls just love that...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2006): i think you definatly have a chance, if she went to the trouble of getting u a birthday card and you were cuddling at that party then i would guess she feels the same but is too shy to say. The valentines day idea is really great and i think she would love it. Go for it
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