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51-59,
*annio111
writes:My GF and I are in a committed relationship. Recently we had an argument (nothing major… but she got angry) While she was angry, she removed my from her friend's list on facebook. I just found out (we had made up), and I asked her about it. She admitted she did it b/c she was mad at me and said she would “undo” it. Anyway… I got a little paranoid I guess. She left her phone out and I looked at the texts. There was a message from 8:00 am from a guy (let’s call him “tom jones) that said “Good morning beautiful”I wanted so bad not to confront her… b/c I’d have to admit I “spied” but I gave in…just saying “who is Tom?” now the guy happens to have the same first name as her father so she says : “my dad”I said… so it was your dad that said “good morning beautiful”? Knowing I saw it at that point she said – no that’s tom jones… a friend of mine. I have known him since I was 15. every now and then he sends me something like that out of the blue. Then she gets REAL angry at me for spying and wont talk to me. I apologized for looking at her text…and asked her to just please forgive me. She is SO angry. Won’t talk to me.I don’t know if she is telling the truth and don’t think I can accuse her of lying. I want her to forgive me. Please give me honest answers. Was what I did so bad?? I feel just terrible! I love her SO much. I don’t want to be a jealous jerk.
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reader, dannio111 +, writes (5 March 2010):
dannio111 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGuys she DUMPED me over this. After TWO years!!!
I have to beleive that
"A female reader, anonymous, (4 March 2010)"
is correct. she got so angry b/c i caught her up to something. I am devastated. I planned on spendign the rest of my life with her. I adored her. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Who hasnt taken a sneaky peek at a partners phone once in a while? I have. Thats how i found out my partner was cheating on me with his ex. You girlfriend shouldnt really be getting flirty good morning messages from other guys. And if shes supposed to have known him since way back....why didnt you know about him? Me thinks the lady doth protest too much. Shes just rattled youve caught her at something. I would just ignore her for a while and let her come back to you. If she loves you and shes telling the truth, whats the big deal anyway. Most normal people in a committed relationship wouldnt split up because one looked at the others phone. Not unless they were 13 or something. Shes behaving strangely.
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