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writes:How can i spice up our sex life if he won't even touch me, it seems i'm the one doing all the touching. How do i get him to do more foreplay
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 God sounds like my situation I am just giving up myself Im saying screw it . Men Who needs them . Im over it Good Luck with yours God knows you will need it ....
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 First of all the two of you need to talk. A sexlife don't spice itself up. Tell him what you want/need and ask him what he want/need - Telling him that you would love to spice it up in the bedroom is not a bad thing - you can browse the we together (or apart) and find stuff you want to try/do.
If you do it apart - mail the links to each other.
If you are in a rutt, look back and remember things you used to do for him and that he seemed to respond to, then do them again.
There is no shame in showing him what you like or telling him, just remember to not say, oh you do it this way and that is not how I like it.
But first of all you two need to talk. Communication and an open one is key to all successful relationships. It truly is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): Why dont you try lighting candles in the bedroom & dress up in your best lingerie for when he gets home. Try and make yourself irristable to him so he will want to touch you. Tease him by slightly touching him then pulling away so he really wants it and will realise that he is going to have to make the first move. Good luck.
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