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writes:I think of her as the best person in the world the ideal partner, she's the first thing on my mind in the morning and last thing at night , some times i will just break down all of a sudden and just cry and cry at the thought of not having her around ,when listening to some music that we both loved i just break down and cry my eyes outone song called dj limmer - i wanna grow old with you ,,, check it out its a very very sad song :-(my question is how do you/i get out of feeling like this ,how do you move on when feelings are so strong and it feels there is no way of going on ?? i know i will love and adore this girl till the day i die and words cannot express how i feel inside and about the futurethanks all
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reader, shwethashivam  +, writes (24 December 2007):
Hello... There are certain things on earth off our hands. We got to live with that. Just feel her being around you. You wont let her thoughts die, will you? ('cause i couldn't) Just the thought of her should give you all energy for the day! Believe her staying with you and keep going! Try living for others and may be, you would feel great! Don't let her thoughts drown your spirit and instead fly the wings! Take it and go on!Wish you feel great with her thoughts (as i do with mine)!
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reader, love-him +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hey sugar.. yea that song is great :) the westlife one is good too :) you really need to divert your thoughts too someone or something else, think about other things :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me about anything x
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (25 November 2007):
 That's very touching, mate, I sympathize with you because I've been going through the same emotions for about 5 months now, and understand that it isn't easy.
Is it early days in your break up? How long ago did it occur?
I don't know how long you were with this girl, but the best advice I can give is for you to either; do things you used to do before you met her. Recently I started listening to my old Michael Jackson CD's that I hadn't listened to since I was younger, and they have triggered a pretty rapid turn around. It works! Or, do something completely new. Go out and do things so that you aren't thinking of her. Also, when you wake up in the morning, don't allow yourself to simply sit and dwell on her leaving you, do something! Watch TV, read a book, do a puzzle, ect. Same thing before you to sleep.
Other than that, as frustrating as it is to hear, I advise that you give it time. Time heals all wounds, and time will allow you to move on from the feelings you're feeling.
Best of look. Send me a message if you like.
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reader, muffy  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 OMG!!! that is exactly my problem.my ex boyfriend broke up with me 6 times and weve only gotten back together 5.i cant stop thinking about him,i cry,i try to talk to him but the sad part is that he doesnt even wanna be friends with me or talk to me ever again just because we broke up for good.it really sucks and i really miss talking to him so i know how you feel.but heres the thing,yoou probably wont get over her no matter what you do,she wont get off your mind.trust me ive tried everything and it doesnt work.so it will take a long time to stop thinking of her but you have to just go with the flow because if you really love her youll let her be happy as well.thats why i listened and stopped talking to my ex because i love him.so eventually youll move on but it will take awhile.ok.
i hope i helped
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