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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am a 30 year old married woman. Point blank, my husband and I are in a D/s relationship with him being the top and he spanks me whenever I have done wrong.Recently, he was spanking me when I was laying naked on the bed. I began to wiggle to avoid getting slapped in the same spots and tried to block. My husband ordered me to spread my arms and legs and then proceeded to tie my hands to the bed frame. Then, he asked, "What to use to bind your legs" and told me sarcastically as he went to find something, "Don't go away". I was surprised because he had never tied me down before. I wasn't angry as in our marriage, this is fair game. I was just nervous about being tied down and being helpless. And by butt was so sore. When the hubby came back and tied my feet, he told me that's the way he liked to see me, stripped off his clothes, was as hard as a rock, but instead of having sex, kept spanking me. What kind of new turn on was this?
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reader, lionelhutz +, writes (2 July 2010):
Sounds like he's interested in taking the play to new places. But if you are uncomfortable with it, talk to him about it. Otherwise he could get the wrong idea that you are into it when you actually may not be.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 July 2010):
Make sure you have a preset "Safe word" so that you don't have to worry about things getting out of hand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaang.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 July 2010):
Sounds like he's added bondage to the mix. Why don't you discuss it with him?
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