Something from my past has come back to bite me in the butt!

A female age 41-50, *haron jane writes:

i am dating this guy since 2 years.. i had a very ugly past which i didnt share completely with my husband.. 6 months bak we gt married against his family's wish.. i mean since the start they were against me .. he is younger than me.. now the problem is wat i had done in past i had stayed back at our common frds house bcoz it was late to go home.. i slipped in tht weak moment ( but didnt end up having sex) it was me n tht guy only at his house.. but this happnd before my husband n me started dating... now he has found out abt it and is heart broken and not talking to me at all.. he said a lot of things tht m a loose character and all..it did hurt me but when i think frm his side i cry n cry the whole day.. he has given me a second chance to improve on certain things ... like clothes and no talking to guys and all..m ready to do for life time..bcoz i love him more thn anything in my life.. i had to tell this to my family as well..got too humilated felt really bad... they said lot of things to me.. but end of it i knw its my fault..but i told my husband tht it was my past n u have changed in the past 2 years and have been completely honest with him... he doesnt trust me at all now.. he said if he see changes onli then he will come bak or else he will move on... idk wat shuld i do..bcoz i really love him alot and it was my past and i was scared to tell him wat if he leaves me n goes..please help.. day in day out i just keep staring at the wall and think will he ever be able to love me like before?? ..will he forgive me??? i have completely broken down.. please help...

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