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female
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anonymous
writes: So basically, for the past month I've been talking to this guy I like. Everything has been great, we've been flirting and he was texting me every day, and we even saw each other accidentally last week at this mall, and he texted me to tell me it was fate that he saw me there. (cheesy, I know)but still cute, and everything seemed fine until a few days ago. He hasn't been replying very much. Sleeping a lot, he hasn't been flirting at all, but he still always texts back every day, and make a little conversation, but something seems really off. And it could be because school is starting in a week and everyone is a little off, but I'm not sure what else? Could he just be in a bad mood? Because sometimes in the past month, this has happened before, but for some reason this just feels off. Should I worry about it? Maybe let it go until school starts where I can see him more? I don't know what to do :/
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (5 August 2012):
Why are you asking us? Why don't you ask him? Does he have a job and work a lot? Is someone ill in his family and he is helping out? There could be A LOT of reasons why he is a little "off". Also, you do need to be realistic about how often people should text and expect replies back. Just because he can text, doesn't mean he should text you multiple times a day. You said he was still texting you everyday, so ask if he's been working a lot or something else is going on in his life and see what he says. In all honesty, most people do not have the time to text all day long. So, go easy on the guy.
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