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*unter3994
writes:I'm in love with my best friend.I knew him since the beginning of the school year he helping me a lot since im new at school and that made me fall for him even more. He has a girlfriend. He is the person i been dreaming about ever since i started high schoolHe is perfect to me and i dont know what to do. we just have this bond since we meet. how can u tell if someone is in the closet? how can you tell?i cant tell him i like him like him. that would destroy our relationship that we have now. i need help on finding a way to not have these feeling without him knowing and without it showing it would be great if someone will help me out with this.
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reader, hunter3994 +, writes (23 November 2011):
hunter3994 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm not sure. It hard already not bring out. Plus he a Gf so im scr*wed :(.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 November 2011):
 You cannot just turn off your feelings, if you try to hide them you are only going to hurt yourself and become miserable. Either you tell him how you feel or else you distance yourself from him. If he is a friend then yes he will come to terms with it, yes he might be shocked and be awkward for a few days but once he responds either way then at least you will know where you stand. If he is not gay well then ask him to put it behind the both of you and move forward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2011): Just tell him, also keep in mind if you don't tell him it will break after a while as well.
If he really is your friend your friendship won't be broken, so be prepared for any response
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