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writes:So I have no experience at all with women and I am just curious about the following couple of situations:How do you behave just after having sex with someone you care?How do you behave just after having sex with someone you don't care (as in a one night stand)???Do you talk? cuddle? Just get up and leave? Have a smoke?What's your behavior in these two situations. Please I don't know about this stuff...Please!! I am very interested in your answers!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your interesting answers!! They've given me some new perspective. Thanks again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): it all depends. People are different and do different things. I've never had a one night stand, so I don't know much about that, but when I'm in a relationship I don't cuddle much. We usually kiss and talk about the good parts and that we love each other and either fall asleep or get up/walk away and do something else. I always appreciate it if the guy/bf hugs me or kisses me and say something nice before stalking off. Never just leave immediately without a word of appreciation.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (20 May 2011):
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Well if its a casual one night stand I would appreciate the guy to at least cuddle for a bit, before leaving. But I wouldn't want him to hang around to long, as we have both made it clear its only sex we wanted, not getting to close to eachother afterwards. as it could complicate things.
But if You love someone , then after its great to cuddle up close, and gently stroke eachother, untill we both fall to sleep. or go at it again :) But you will know what to do when the time comes, just being yourself will be enough.
I hope this has helped x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): Uh as to my opinion on this,if just have sex and go somewhere to do something or lay down and sleep or anything like that means he's not or she's not really interest of the person but only sex.some people happen that act that way because something bothering so much but are too craving for sex.and mostly if they love each other then after they cuddle or talk a little bit before heading for something else.it is very clear to see whether they only look for sex.some people pretend they love you so you can have sex with them again but the truth is they don't and you can tell.it is good to know that person better before having sex with.then you can see every changes of how they react and the better you know the more you can tell including the little changes and their feeling for you from time to time.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 After sex without someone I care about? Lie back and let her cuddle up against me, put my arm around her, and enjoy the moment. Usually she wants to talk, but I'm too out of it to say much of anything, so I just do my best to listen. Morning after, I make Irish coffee and bacon-bit waffles. I don't smoke, but a good time for it is while cuddling or making coffee.
I don't have sex with anyone I don't care about, but the procedure varies from thanking them politely and leaving to falling asleep, having breakfast, and leaving after that.
Honestly, as long as you avoid saying something like "That was terrible," there is no right or wrong thing to do. Naturally, you'll tend to just fall asleep, so you either do that or try not to. Just relax and enjoy the moment.
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