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writes: I am 15 and I get really shy around guys I like. I mean so shy I can barely speak to them because I am so nervous. What can I do to get over this? Guys think I am boring or something because I can't carry on a conversation. Eventually if people give me time I warm up to them and I'm OK, but it seems like I get rejected before I can get to that point. Help!
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (19 March 2006):
 i'm the same but i still manage to get loads of guy attention. i've tried so many different things imageing them as my friends, talking about things i'm interested in. but i'm still so shy. i find flirting without words easier then with...i tend to say alot of crap when i speak to guy. i think the best that just talk to him as if you were talking to one of your girlfriends. if you find something better tell me
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2006): Everyone finds it hard to talk to the opposite sex because they're unsure of what to talk about. Share any hobby interests? Could you talk about how boring the lesson before was? They may sound boring, but they're good, simple ways to get a conversation started. After that, just let the conversation flow as though you were talking to your normal mates. It gets easier. Unfortunately, if it's in your nature to be shy, then there's not much you can do to change it, except act confident on the outside, and you'll shine!
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reader, Starrla +, writes (19 March 2006):
 Just try imageing their like all your other friends.
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