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writes:hi erm just wondering when christains have done that SRT program thing to say they won't have sex before marriage does that mean they have to stay single to o can they still have a bf/gf? The reason i'm asking is because the lad i like is a christatin and has this ring on so i know what he chooses, however he does say that he's choosing to stay single and that he can't be doing with gf's yet hes shown loads of signs of liking me and everything and some of these have been very stron. So just wondering is it just that he's choosing to stay single or has he GOT to? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 June 2008):
Well in order to get someone to marry you I think you have to get them to be your girlfriend first. Unless you order a Russian bride off the internet.
He's probably just choosing not to have a girlfriend because he's a 17 year old boy and if he starts having you as a girlfriend he is really really going to want to break his vows and have sex or something like it. So he is avoiding temptation, which is the sensible thing to do.
Why not just be his friend until you are a bit older and he is ready to commit. He's more likely to want to marry a girl who's been there and waited for him for all those years.
If you go off him before then then its no loss and you can still be friends anyway.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): From what I have heard and experienced, it is normally people who have made a decision not to get involved in pre-marital sex. That does not mean they will want to stay single or stay single; merely a choice they have made not to actively participate in "sex' untill they are married.
Hope this explains!
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