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writes:Right, I've got a question on dating. As a junior in high school, I haven't much experience with this sort of stuff, though I'd really like to, and there's a new girl in the class below me. I've made her acquaintence, and she seems quite virtuous. She's very pretty, and pleasant, and I would like to get to know her better. The problem is, I've never really done something like this before (to any success, anyway). So, how should I go about dating her (or any girl whom I am not already good friends with)? I don't want to come on too strong or oddly, (as I have done that before, but I eternally fear missing these lovely sorts of oppertunities. High school is. after all, only so long.A pre-emptive thank you for your time and consideration. Best wishes! Reply to this Question
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (25 September 2011):
 I think what you should do is first work on building up some confidence. Go in with the intent of just talking and getting to know her. I would also suggest that you read this article..it may be beneficial for you: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-approach-a-girlthe-right-way.html
I also think it would be a good idea (based on your age and lack of experience) to go on a group date first. This may provide less pressure on the situation- and the both of you to spend time with each other. After awhile, if you two click, you can ask her out for a one-on-one date.
Hope this helps!
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