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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Right..I have been 'seeing' (a term which I hate) a guy for over a year now and when were happy, we are so happy, but when its bad...its so bad! He cant 'commit' properly, whcih I understand as in the past, I have had a few problems which have effected us and I'm dealing with that. But why are we so happy one minute and then arguing the next? I dont feel good enough, my ex of four years was the total oppostite to the guy I'm with now...is this the reason? Please help!
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (16 March 2010):
maybe the fact that he wont commit is causing a barrier for you and him.everyone has there ups and downs in relationships but rather than lashing out try and sit down and talk through the problems you have together as arguing isnt going to solve the problems.
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