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writes: I'm 16 and I'm looking for a boyfriend and it's driving me so crazy. It is putting so much stress on me and that shows in the way I treat other people. I don't know what to do cuz I tried everything..I know it would be easy just to forget about it and be patient and bla bla bla, but that doesnt work. I have someone in mind but I know it will just cause problems because when people see us all they will do is talk it up because from what they see I'm just a black girl wasting my time with an Asian guy just like my last relationship (that was hell).I just need advice before I go crazy! Reply to this Question
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (11 June 2006):
 To be honest you are young so whats the rush ? Yeah I know im telling you to patient, but well at 16 theres a long way to go yet!! You should find what makes you, you first, find yourself and enjoy being you, you need to have another person to do that, you need ascertain what it is you like doing and what you want to achieve, without the need for a man, there is plenty of time for that! Be more open to who you are and you will find a guy. You say you have your eye on someone, well you say the past was hell because people frowned, well let them its not thier relationship. You do what you want to do not what others tell you or think about you, its your life and its up to you how you want to live it.
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reader, sibaan +, writes (11 June 2006):
 you shouldnt actually care what people think. if your heart tells you that its right then nothing else should matter.....
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