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writes: Im a 26 year old girl and i havent done the relationship thing for a long time for various reasons but i met a man a few months back, he turned out to be married, now as much as my morals are telling me it is wrong i have still been seeing him. Yes i am ashamed as it is so wrong and was the last thing i was expecting. but he is the male version of me ive never met anyone like him. we do that finishing each others sentences etc. i know he feels the same way. i am usually the ice queen where guys are concerned, but im not a bitch with no morals, im a genuine person who really doesnt want to be hurt or hurt anyone else. but it is so infuriating and frustrating! Reply to this Question
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reader, loni +, writes (11 January 2006):
as a marreid woman I can say it is nice you think you have (good morals) but it is a lot of crap if you ask me, you already know you are wrong and you want to write that "you are a genuine person who dosen't want to hurt anyone" But you are lying to yourself, you are selfish bitch who is only thinking of herself, I am being blunt because due to my own husband having an affair has ruined my life, and the life of our children, Why? because there was a woman out there who knew he had a family and didn't give a damn. You are selfish and you know it, he is not your's to even ask the question of what you shold do, unless he leaves his wife, in which I highly doubt, you are probably just a piece of ass, they usually come running back to there wives to clean up there mess, that you helped create.
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reader, 2EsillyaMuse'D +, writes (11 January 2006):
I'd advise breaking this off completely, here and now. If he's willing to cheat on his wife, and you steal him away from her, what's to keep him from cheating on YOU when YOU'RE the wife and having some other girl stealing him away from YOU? "Mate stealing" doesn't work; it sets up a precident for reoccurance...and reoccurance...and reoccurance...and reoccurance!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (10 January 2006):
 This is a difficult one because, either way, someone will be getting hurt. Either you break it off with a man who quite frankly, thinks it's ok to cheat on his wife or keep seeing him and when she finds out, which she inevitably will, ruin her life.
I know you love and think you get on great but can you live with guilt if they do split up?Will he ever leave her or are you just a bit of fun? There's so many questions you need to answer for yourself and ask him too. If there's no future for you two, there's no need to carry on, is there?
Just think carefully before doing anything here. If he is willing to cheat on his wife, this shows he might not be the angel you think. I hope everyone ends up happy, good luck and hope you make the right decision.
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